tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post5087243326340006867..comments2023-10-30T11:17:11.033-04:00Comments on A million miles to Mia: Questions Answered: Part 7Special Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11824577189457099837noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-90007496356959428362008-09-16T01:44:00.000-04:002008-09-16T01:44:00.000-04:00Nice post. Krista, you were married on my birthda...Nice post. Krista, you were married on my birthday. <BR/><BR/>You're wedding really does look like it was beautiful. I think if Lane cheated on me, I would never get over it. But I know that's not his style. And I'm so sorry for every spouse that is cheated on. No one deserves that.Lienehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11572578381386253334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-22078943996236289802008-09-10T18:53:00.000-04:002008-09-10T18:53:00.000-04:00Great post, thaks for sharing your pictures and yo...Great post, thaks for sharing your pictures and your honest feelings.<BR/>You did the right thing and finally went with your gut feeling.Elisa...life as we know it.https://www.blogger.com/profile/09694115298853432814noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-32228082599032387502008-09-09T21:37:00.000-04:002008-09-09T21:37:00.000-04:00What a beautiful bride-such a gorgeous event! Than...What a beautiful bride-such a gorgeous event! Thank you for sharing your thoughts. That part about right before you walked in, well I could totally visualize it! Great post from the heart. Could feel your strength and knowledge of self throughout. I admire that.Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08495041727747605688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-76740575631851132002008-09-09T19:47:00.000-04:002008-09-09T19:47:00.000-04:00Beautiful pictures!!! Thank you for sharing tha...Beautiful pictures!!! Thank you for sharing that story...much of it I knew, and I hate that you went thru that. But - as I say, what doesn't kill ya makes ya stronger. Right?<BR/><BR/>You don't need a man to be happy. They are too much work and almost always annoying........LOL...<BR/><BR/>Miss ya!Colleenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11041922509494614265noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-22644227439857845952008-09-09T13:56:00.000-04:002008-09-09T13:56:00.000-04:00What a great, honest post. I could identify so muc...What a great, honest post. I could identify so much with what your wrote. And - as a good Scots lass who loves the pipes - wow! Impressed beyond belief you managed to keep his warm up hidden from your guests: a difficult feat at the best of times.<BR/><BR/>Like you, my ex and I split (after 11 years) due to his being unfaithful. To be honest, it was the best thing that ever happened to me: though I would never have thought so back then. We mourn, we move on and we learn. If nothing else I hope I can pass onto my daughter that it is better to be single than settle. Being in a bad relationship is not better than being in no relationship. You will pass your strength on to your daugher, and you will be an awesome mom!Lindsayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12711583593777948158noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-55817519422095999982008-09-09T13:29:00.000-04:002008-09-09T13:29:00.000-04:00I'm a frequent lurker coming out of hiding because...I'm a frequent lurker coming out of hiding because I feel like I could have written that last part about why you probably won't get married again. I've never been married, but have had enough bad relationships to know that it's probably best I escaped that one (at least for me). Had any one of a couple of guys asked, I would have said yes - then I probably could have written this whole thing similar to yours. It sounds like you're in such a great place right now though. Great post!Juliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03254744026096810022noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-1769586122726802472008-09-09T11:24:00.000-04:002008-09-09T11:24:00.000-04:00I loved your story of your wedding and what ensued...I loved your story of your wedding and what ensued. I least I know I'm not alone. Just as you said, with the betrayal in that relationship and others, it would be hard to let someone else in that close. I'm trying, but I don't think it's going to happen. <BR/><BR/>And I really hate it when people say 'you'll find someone else' BLEH! Not everyone gets married, ya know, is what I say to them.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for posting :-)<BR/><BR/>PS my ex is the reason I had to delete the posts from my blog.Christinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13073971702206039725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-49199066021439930662008-09-09T09:41:00.000-04:002008-09-09T09:41:00.000-04:00I don't regret my first marriage either and I woul...I don't regret my first marriage either and I wouldn't change it.redmaryjaneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09768158710291676368noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-25796049946189109412008-09-08T12:55:00.000-04:002008-09-08T12:55:00.000-04:00What a great post!! You looked absolutely stunnin...What a great post!! You looked absolutely stunning on your wedding day. I too was married for just a short time and also knew it was wrong the minute the ceremony was over. Live and learn! I like to think that I am a better person because of the experience. <BR/><BR/>Suzie<BR/>LID 9/4/2006Suziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02171178800883445977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-73191899567173535092008-09-08T00:32:00.000-04:002008-09-08T00:32:00.000-04:00You're a smart cookie, Special K. And, you sure l...You're a smart cookie, Special K. And, you sure looked hot in that gown. xowzgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17803260442691384173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-51630542590811833792008-09-07T18:06:00.000-04:002008-09-07T18:06:00.000-04:00You were a beautiful bride, thanks for sharing you...You were a beautiful bride, thanks for sharing your story. <BR/>I didn't think I'd ever let anyone that close to me ever again either, after years of dealing with my stuff and facing my fears Shane came along and ended up being a huge part of my healing process. You never know what the future may hold!Debhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08375551348761423144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-15262146557978649362008-09-07T15:06:00.000-04:002008-09-07T15:06:00.000-04:00Thanks for sharing your story and your pictures wi...Thanks for sharing your story and your pictures with us. You were a lovely bride. I'm glad you got to have that special day in your life. I longed for that for nearly twenty years, and now that I've been there done that, it's no longer a void in my life. Sounds superficial, but it's not really. It's a significant passage in life.<BR/><BR/>:-)Joannahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12268912691024764398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-92034972777998156252008-09-07T09:18:00.000-04:002008-09-07T09:18:00.000-04:00You were such a pretty bride and your wedding was ...You were such a pretty bride and your wedding was amazing. I am so sorry it all ended so sadly.Briana's Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11160431869695128577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-20856190194401595942008-09-06T23:51:00.000-04:002008-09-06T23:51:00.000-04:00Thanks for sharing your story! You were a beautif...Thanks for sharing your story! You were a beautiful bride! I loved looking at the pictures. And I totally get what you are saying about at least having the fantasy wedding day. :o)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-38852421295056889832008-09-06T21:51:00.000-04:002008-09-06T21:51:00.000-04:00You were a beautiful bride! Your going to be a bea...You were a beautiful bride! Your going to be a beautiful mom next up!Daniellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14596859412414942719noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-51186823497121999342008-09-06T21:39:00.000-04:002008-09-06T21:39:00.000-04:00Well now, weren't you just the picture perfect bri...Well now, weren't you just the picture perfect bride! <BR/><BR/>I want to see the face of the dude you were dancing with, I need a visual for the cheater. ;0)t~https://www.blogger.com/profile/16661748211204975504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-14580495689484658842008-09-06T20:33:00.000-04:002008-09-06T20:33:00.000-04:00Ooooo you had every right to feel like "Miss Ameri...Ooooo you had every right to feel like "Miss America"!!! Definitely looks like a day that had all the perfect trimmings. <BR/><BR/>Its funny, I've asked several people who split reasonable early on in their marriage, and all have said, that they "knew" on their wedding day that something wasn't quite right. I don't know whether they just say that, to make it feel easier? But I felt it was for forever on my wedding day, hence the utter devastation when hubs did the dirty on me. But, it may be the reason that I could take him back? And the reason for him to work really really hard to win back my trust - coz he felt the "forever" thing too... he just got a little distracted along the way? <BR/><BR/>I do hope you find a great bloke, he does treat you how you deserve to be treated - coz it is really nice.OziMumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09813480734366566560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-51953865224685114432008-09-06T19:30:00.000-04:002008-09-06T19:30:00.000-04:00Those pictures are beautiful! You look gorgeous. ...Those pictures are beautiful! You look gorgeous. You are so right about needing to have that mad, passionate in love feeling in order for a marriage to work. I had(and still have) that with my husband and that is the main thing that has kept us together all of these(20) years. Because there have been times when I wanted to quit, and it was that love that kept me here. If we didn't have that foundation, we would not still be married today. Well, that and lots of marriage counseling. I think every couple needs to do that at some time in their marriage. Marriage is certainly not easy, that's for sure! <BR/><BR/>I always told myself I could forgive almost anything of the person I loved, except being unfaithful. Once that trust is gone, it would be impossible(for me) to get it back.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for sharing your story!Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17310806020847827430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-8498537363176904852008-09-06T19:19:00.000-04:002008-09-06T19:19:00.000-04:00What a deeply moving post, thanks for sharing it.N...What a deeply moving post, thanks for sharing it.<BR/><BR/>Never say never...Rhondahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17024122171786681618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-83644028559518587752008-09-06T18:48:00.000-04:002008-09-06T18:48:00.000-04:00K,I agree with others. You Look sooooo FAB. Girl y...K,<BR/>I agree with others. You Look sooooo FAB. Girl you are so pretty! My Mom & I are seamstresses in our side Biz and I agree your DRESS is stunning! You describe it perfectly too!Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17211367245469113691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-11754523500984929322008-09-06T18:43:00.000-04:002008-09-06T18:43:00.000-04:00LOVE this post..I have been in this situation.. an...LOVE this post..<BR/>I have been in this situation.. and don't say NEVER.. you might not know when the right one will sneak up on you... and they will be everything you thought you could not find in a man...<BR/>HUGS to you...<BR/>Have a Great Weekend...<BR/>BEAUTIFUL bride,dress,cake,wedding..Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16373111344793230801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-76534230918201787302008-09-06T18:25:00.000-04:002008-09-06T18:25:00.000-04:00You looked Beautiful! Good for you to be strong en...You looked Beautiful! Good for you to be strong enough to stand up for yourself! And to be able to move on!Abby's Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00445279190964485498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-44578096248018993682008-09-06T18:13:00.000-04:002008-09-06T18:13:00.000-04:00You were a beautiful bride..This was a VERY honest...You were a beautiful bride..This was a VERY honest post..I admire you for writing it!!! <BR/>Sooo..is he married and if so did he marry the person he cheated with? (sorry, I just had to ask).<BR/>Have a good weekend:)Dianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05590329522054940452noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-30392987049308387622008-09-06T17:23:00.000-04:002008-09-06T17:23:00.000-04:00Wow, thank you for sharing such a personal experie...Wow, thank you for sharing such a personal experience with us. I loved the pictures and you looked great!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30204766.post-7207058008094773182008-09-06T16:23:00.000-04:002008-09-06T16:23:00.000-04:00Great post! And your wedding pictures do look fab...Great post! And your wedding pictures do look fab.Johnnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16423885759708774960noreply@blogger.com